{"id":11716,"date":"2017-03-22T12:49:38","date_gmt":"2017-03-22T12:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/?p=11716"},"modified":"2017-03-22T12:56:38","modified_gmt":"2017-03-22T12:56:38","slug":"cum-ne-a-schimbat-timpul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/cum-ne-a-schimbat-timpul\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum ne-a schimbat timpul?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Uneori este greu s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre prietenii, mai ales dac\u0103 ele dureaz\u0103 de ani de zile. Poate te-ai obi\u0219nuit cu ele, e\u0219ti convins c\u0103 mereu vor exista \u0219i ui\u021bi s\u0103 le mai acorzi aten\u021bia \u0219i importan\u021ba necesar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aud din ce \u00een ce mai des c\u0103, nu exist\u0103 prietenie \u00eentre o fat\u0103 \u0219i un b\u0103iat, este posibil, nu contrazic, las doar realitatea s\u0103 o fac\u0103. De c\u00e2nd ne cunoa\u0219tem? De ani de zile, de pe vremea c\u00e2nd c\u0103r\u021bile noatre de identitate erau \u00eenc\u0103 proaspete, acum avem 23 de ani, ani care s-au scurs f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama, ani \u00een care am continuat s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m, s\u0103 ne \u00een\u021belegem, s\u0103 ne sf\u0103tuim, s\u0103 devenim mai buni, s\u0103 ne consolid\u0103m prietenia.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">G\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 la anii de liceu, nu exist\u0103 zi, \u00een care figura lui s\u0103 nu intervin\u0103, s\u0103 nu-mi z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 , s\u0103 nu m\u0103 enerveze, s\u0103 nu ne tachin\u0103m. Anii de facultate \u00eemi reamintesc de momentul \u00een care, am\u00e2ndoi pleca\u021bi de acas\u0103, \u00eentr-un ora\u0219 nou, ne-am ajutat, am fost acolo c\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt a avut nevoie necondi\u021bionat. \u00cen prezent, ne ocup\u0103m cu ce ne place, \u00eentr-un domeniu \u00een care suntem chiar buni, uneori st\u0103m \u0219i povestim cum c\u0103 nu ne a\u0219teptam ca via\u021ba s\u0103 ne aduc\u0103 aici, mereu \u00eei spun c\u0103 sunt m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de el, \u0219i da, chiar sunt! \u0218tiu c\u0103 \u0219tie, \u0219tiu c\u0103 \u00eei place s\u0103 i se spun\u0103, dar ce mai \u0219tiu cu siguran\u021b\u0103 e c\u0103 oriunde ne-ar duce via\u021ba prietenia dintre noi nu se va schimba. Nu am \u00een\u021beles niciodat\u0103 cum putem fi at\u00e2t de diferi\u021bi \u0219i totodat\u0103 at\u00e2t de asem\u0103n\u0103tori, \u00a0trebuie s\u0103 recunosc, invidiez carisma lui, puterea ce o are c\u00e2nd este \u00eenconjurat de oameni, nu-mi amintesc s\u0103 fi existat un moment \u00een care s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 cuvintele la el, mereu cu z\u00e2mbetul pe buze, \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103ritor, privirea lui te face s\u0103 ai \u00eencredere, parc\u0103 involuntar te asigur\u0103 c\u0103 va fi bine! Muntele de om, cu z\u00e2mbet de copil a crescut, nu mai este liceanul pasionat de sport cu glumele \u00een dotare, nici studentul petrec\u0103re\u021b \u0219i dezordonat, a devenit omul responsabil, glume\u021b \u0219i calculat, care apare \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi la costum, cu agend\u0103, pus pe fug\u0103 din cauza programului prea \u00eenc\u0103rcat. Mereu \u00eel privesc amuzat\u0103 c\u00e2nd f\u0103ce cuno\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 cu angaja\u021bii, m\u0103 amuz\u0103 modul \u00een care este privit, cu respect, cu seriozitate, asta m\u0103 face m\u00e2ndr\u0103, colegul din dreapta mea din liceu a ajuns acolo unde \u00eei este locul, chiar dac\u0103 \u00een inima mea este acela\u0219i c\u0103piat cu p\u0103strung\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Fiind jurnalist, pl\u0103c\u00e2ndu-mi at\u00e2t de mult cuvintele \u0219i cunosc\u00e2nd puterea lor mi-am dorit s\u0103 realizez un interviu despre omul care este acum, Alex. \u00cen realitate mi-am dorit s\u0103 pot da via\u021b\u0103 imaginii pe care eu o am despre el. Interviul este compus din 10 \u00eentreb\u0103ri, la care Alex a r\u0103spuns, ceea ce m-a frapat a fost sinceritatea cu care a spus lucrurilor pe nume.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-11717 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o.jpg\" alt=\"17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o\" width=\"581\" height=\"459\" data-id=\"11717\" srcset=\"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o-300x237.jpg 300w, https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o-1024x809.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o-624x493.jpg 624w, https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17311664_1433241896706763_1142552062_o-900x711.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 581px) 100vw, 581px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I-am ar\u0103tat \u00eentreb\u0103rile \u0219i \u00een acel moment a z\u00e2mbit: \u201c\u0218tii c\u0103 m\u0103 pui \u00een dificultate! Nu-mi place s\u0103 vorbesc despre mine&#8230;dar s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m!\u201d \u0218tiam acest aspect, tocmai de aceea am insistat pe \u00eentreb\u0103ri personale, care s\u0103-l fac\u0103 s\u0103 fie el pur \u0219i simplu! Dup\u0103 ce am primit r\u0103spunsurile, am r\u0103mas impresionat\u0103, era acela\u0219i om, cu acelea\u0219i visuri \u0219i dorin\u021be, dar cel mai bine v\u0103 las pe voi s\u0103-l cunoa\u0219te\u021bi:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Adela: Cum crezi c\u0103 te percep cei din jur?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Alex: O prim\u0103 impresie a celor din jur este aceea c\u0103 sunt mult prea rigid, rece, serios. Ulterior, se dovede\u0219te c\u0103 aparen\u021bele \u00een\u0219eal\u0103. Sunt un tip glume\u021b, sper s\u0103 fiu perceput ca atare!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Alege 5 cuvinte care te reprezint\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Al: Ambi\u021bios, punctual, serios, coerent, uituc.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Cum te vezi peste 10 ani?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Al: Cu o familie frumoas\u0103, nu mai mult de doi copii, locuind \u00een Rom\u00e2nia \u0219i av\u00e2nd o carier\u0103 frumoas\u0103 \u00een spate.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Ce apreciezi la o prim\u0103 impresie, \u00een ceea ce-\u021bi prive\u0219te interlocutorul?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: Inteligen\u021ba! \u00cemi place s\u0103 pot discuta cu oamenii pe care \u00eei \u00eent\u00e2lnesc!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Prima \u00eent\u00e2mplare amuzant\u0103 ce-\u021bi vine \u00een minte \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu mine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: Nu este una singur\u0103 care s\u0103 \u00eemi vin\u0103 \u00een minte, \u00eens\u0103 cu siguran\u021b\u0103 era amuzant de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd, pe parcursul liceului, copiam de la tine \u0219i primeam o not\u0103 mai bun\u0103!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Ce te atrage la locul de munc\u0103?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: Echipa din care fac parte, faptul c\u0103, surprinz\u0103tor, am rezultate \u0219i faptul c\u0103 mereu cunosc oameni noi.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: \u00cen ce mod te-a schimbat locul de munc\u0103?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: M-a responsabilizat, m-a maturizat, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat multe lucruri, am dob\u00e2ndit multe abilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, fizic, mi-au ap\u0103rut mult doritele fire albe!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Unde te vezi la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: \u00cen niciun caz \u00een ora\u0219ul actual, \u00een Bucure\u0219ti. Mult probabil o s\u0103 fiu \u00een cel mai lini\u0219tit ora\u0219 pe care o sa \u00eel \u00eendr\u0103gesc p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci. Dar, aceast\u0103 \u201cb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be\u201d nu mi-o doresc prea cur\u00e2nd, sunt bine deocamdat\u0103!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 ai o super-putere, care ar fi aceea?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: Mi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 pot s\u0103 citesc g\u00e2ndurile! E simplu, astfel a\u0219 putea s\u0103 \u0219tiu cum face Gates bani, cum b\u0103tr\u00e2nii merg \u00eenc\u0103 de m\u00e2n\u0103 pe strad\u0103, cum copiii alearg\u0103 mereu f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 oboseasc\u0103, cum directorii suport\u0103 stresul \u0219i mai ales ce g\u00e2ndesc femeile (la volan \u00een special)!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Ad: Ce conteaz\u0103 mai mult? Cariera sau via\u021ba personal\u0103?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Al: Ambele sunt, \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103, importante! \u00cemi place ideea de a avea o carier\u0103 frumoas\u0103, dar ur\u0103sc s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 a trecut o zi \u00een care nu am f\u0103cut nimic altceva \u00een afar\u0103 de serviciu. \u00cencerc s\u0103 le \u00eembin c\u00e2t se poate de armonios!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Prin aceste r\u00e2nduri mi-am dorit s\u0103-i mul\u021bumesc, pentru c\u0103 nu o fac prea des, s\u0103-i mul\u021bumesc pentru modul \u00een care m\u0103 suport\u0103 chiar dac\u0103 sunt uneori \u201c\u0219ocat\u0103\u201c!<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i&#8230; amice nu uita, \u00eentotdeauna o s\u0103 fiu acolo c\u00e2nd este nevoie&#8230; pentru c\u0103 de ce nu, \u0219i cel mai puternic om are nevoie de prieteni!<\/p>\n<p>Material scris de Adela \u0162into\u015f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Uneori este greu s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre prietenii, mai ales dac\u0103 ele dureaz\u0103 de ani de&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3760],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11716"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11716"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11716\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11719,"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11716\/revisions\/11719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artout.ro\/reviste\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}